Attractive people are intimidating
Might just be the spot, the venue I normally go to has a big reputation in the area for having really pretentious clientèle harder, as such your Alpha frame needs to be made of steel. If you choose to double up on that with cocky funny, youll come across as a raging douchebag that will turn off many prospects and make every guy hate you.- Unattractive guy who's an asshole; 'There's something intriguing about him! Self deprecating humor and general humility works great.', attractive guy who's an asshole; 'He's a vain, narcissistic bully! Also, you need a different way of perceiving female behavior -- they'll insult you crudely to take you down a peg and feign disinterest to preserve their ego.[but I'll still fuck him anyways]' - LTR game; female feelings of inadequacy get annoying and go away. Every guy should learn some game, but if you look good, you don't need to use as much game (in fact, a good-looking guy who overgames looks like a dolt). Countless approaches will seem cold and on the verge of dying, when the girl is just intimidated by you. Contrast game with a tasteful, modest intellectual tinge to your conversations works nicely, as many think hot dudes are dumb. I thought the whole point of game was understanding what it takes to get the lizard into bed or to do what one wants. Just curious..is it about going through the entire repetoire of 'game' without noticing which triggers she is responding to? And don’t get me wrong, this isn’t someone looking for geeky attention or a propped up fantasy. But “intimidating” is almost uselessly vague, especially if they keeps coming up; it covers a multitude of meanings to the point that it means everything and nothing at once. She has a job she loves that pays good money, money that she likes to spend on her geeky hobbies and toys. – she hears the same thing over and over again: “You’re too intimidating…” Does this sound familiar to you? In fact, going by the number of emails I get from my readers, it’s most common issue that geek (or geek-curious) women encounter when they’re interested in dating.But recently, a team of researchers from the University of Buffalo, California Lutheran University, and the University of Texas discovered that, despite this biological advantage, if given the choice, most men would rather not date a woman who was smarter than them.
“I go to the gym because I don’t have a good figure,” one tells me. But I don’t want people to judge the way I look when I don’t even like how my body looks yet. Because most men don’t shout at women in the gym – they sexually objectify them instead.
I'm 6'3 and have a mix of Mediterranean and Northern European features. On top of them: I find girls with self-esteem issues, usually 6-7s, problems come out even more around me. Unless I am being "cocky-funny." Girls who have to talk about them self non-stop will usually insult me or tell me that I they don't like what I have. I find it easiest for myself to bring home wicked sluts, 6s... One time this hot chick chatted me up to try and get in a 3some with her and some dude she was with. I wish I could use it to get the straight chicks homing in on me like that.
I would rather look like I do than be 5'5 and Asian. Which is fine with me if that makes them feel better. As far as I know I haven't hung out in any bars where gay folks frequent but they appear to be everywhere. Lesbians have fads of types that they attracted too. I thought the whole point of game was understanding what it takes to get the lizard into bed or to do what one wants. Just curious..is it about going through the entire repetoire of 'game' without noticing which triggers she is responding to?
They asked 105 men to read a hypothetical scenario about women who had either scored higher or lower than them on a recent exam, and then rank their attractiveness.
In addition to rating the women, the men were asked to fill out a survey to measure how much they personally related to various stereotypical male qualities.